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My Struggle to Find Focus — Biblical Truth for a Blogger

By livingabovethenoise

I’ll be honest with you — I’ve been struggling with my blog focus lately.  I’ve wondered if my content is relevant to your needs.  Am I only adding to all the noise on this crazy internet!  Should I write more? Less. Should I quit?!

Times Change – 

A lot has changed since I began blogging nine years ago!  It used to be that bloggers shared their hearts and lives when the mood struck.  Now blogging gurus tell us to post religiously, send newsletters weekly, add to that daily Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram — basically invade every bit of your world! 

I find that pretty annoying. When bloggers I follow won’t stay out of my inbox for more than a few days, and I’m guessing you do too.  I get tired of being told I need some amazing, incredible, easy, or fast — trick, gadget, schedule, book, or course – in order to be a better person, blogger, mom, wife, plus be instantly rich.  I’m sure you get my drift!  So I won’t add to the racket and I’ll be blogging the way you and I like it!

Ahhhh…. 😊

With 500 million blogs out there — really! 😯 — it’s hard for a blogger to make sure their reader can even find them.

All the to-dos and shoulds of blogging make my follow-the-rules personality a bit crazy! And I just stop writing. But then I remember how much I enjoy making friends on the internet. I know you want to live above the noise And to do that you need to realize your value before God. Then you can love your family well. And actually enjoy being a mom! And I want to help you do just that!

Biblical Truth for a Blogger –

While sorting through my conflicting thoughts, praying, reading, and seeking counsel, I read the book of Titus. I was again reminded that I am the “older woman” Paul speaks of.  Now, I’m not completely thrilled to have earned this title 😊 but it’s where I am in life!  And because of my age and experience, I have a clear calling to meet the Titus 2 commands. 


According to Scripture, older women are to encourage / teach / train younger women to:

– Love their husbands  — love isn’t always easy and we need ideas and help to do this well
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– Love their children  — it can be really hard being a momma!
– Manage / keep their homes — it’s a tough job but it has to be done.

All of this so “that the Word of God may not be dishonored.”


I’m accepting God’s call me for this journey.  I’ll use my gift of writing — my decades spent journaling to capture and chew on thoughts and ideas — to help “younger” women (that’s you!) love the life they’ve been given.   And that includes all the emotional and spiritual digging-in-the-dirt details of how that actually looks in real life. 

I also like this to be a place where “older” women feel comfortable having conversations about life in middle age:  menopause, empty nest, relationships in marriage after the kids are gone, finding purpose, and more.  This season of life can be quite unsettling to navigate.  We all need friends to help smooth the bumps in the road.

Miscellany – 

  • Expect to see me in your inbox a few times a month, more or less as the mood or Spirit strikes. 
  • I’ll link to a few products I think you’ll find useful.  But only things I use and value and hopefully create soon.
  • But mostly — I’m offering you some hard-won wisdom and discernment in the realm of wife-dom, mothering, personal and spiritual encouragement, along with home management and care.

Please reach out if there’s anything I can help with. Anything you’d like to get a conversation started on.  Shoot me an email with encouraging happenings in your life. I’d love to hear from you! Honestly, blogging can be lonely.

Another thing, I’d love it if you’d share my posts with women you care about. 

Thanks for your time.
Blessings and prayers as you seek to live above the noise!

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Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored. Titus 2:3-5




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More Blogs, More Noise – How To Choose?

By livingabovethenoise

Online Noise

The online culture is noisy and distracting:  Someone wants you to grab a cookbook or a podcast or program to give you 10 easy ways to solve some problem.  It can take hours of sifting through information to find a quality solution.  Therefore, the last thing I want is to add to that already noisy place in your life.  But I also understand how hard it is to find our way in this complicated world.  We need help!

When I began writing, I had learned to manage my home and family and I wanted to share what I experienced.  But as time and life kept growing me, it became more difficult to offer input when I saw how much I had yet to learn!  So I took lots of blogging breaks to catch up, soak in life, and make sure I wasn’t wasting your time.  But I’m realizing I’ll never know everything and if I stop writing, I’ll have missed any opportunity to offer encouragement and ideas with you.  So I’m choosing (again) to use my love of writing and sharing to offer quality content to help you on your life journey as others have helped me.

A blog author should avoid telling you that you’re doing life wrong or suggest there’s only one way to live it.   That’s my goal.  I want to offer ideas and, most importantly, to get you to ask your own questions in order to discover the answers you need.  I’ll ask you to think — in a culture that often tries to get us to stop thinking.

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It’s Good To Borrow From One Another

It’s easy to forget we have a plethora of personalities, histories, and patterns learned from our families.  In spite of social media, or possibly because of it, this independent culture we live in can make us feel very alone or pressured to do things foreign to what we know.  That can be good and bad.  So how do we know who to listen to?  One word — Cautiously.

It can be downright scary and confusing to navigate life alone when no one reaches out.  We do need help.  Enter the blog world, but do it with a healthy perspective — one where we share in each other’s burdens and help one another through life.  I love what a pastor friend reminded me…

“We borrow from one another.” 

Ideas, views, strategies, spiritual strength.  We become so much more capable when we puzzle through problems and learn to think through our days having others encourage us to consider our own possibilities.

My goal in blogging is to reach out, add input, ideas, and advice to living on planet earth.  To remind you (as I’m reminding myself!) to seek to do God’s will, trusting you’ll do better as you gain experience, all the while adapting to the everyday onslaught of new ideas on how to do this thing called life.

Bloggers may convince you to buy their product to make your life easier so they can make their life more profitable.  Beware.  Life doesn’t have to be so complicated.  Go for quality and not quantity.  You’ll find me offering ideas (and a few well-chosen products) that I’ve found helpful in focusing on what’s most important while navigating your busy days.  I hope to encourage you to stop listening to the wrong voices.  To pray.  To listen for God’s Spirit prompting you, not social media or online “friends.”

Simply — Be still. Listen. Think.  Then take a step.

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Be still and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10
Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.  Proverbs 27:17
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Why I Took A Blogging Break

By livingabovethenoise

How LIttle I Really KnowTime…

Yup, it’s getting close to a year since I posted on this blog.   It’s hard to know how such a long span of time happened!  But then again, life is passing by at such a furious pace that it was almost too easy.

The word “furious” seems totally appropriate for how time passes.  It’s as if time is angry with us and that our enemy might just be stealing it from us.  Time with our spouse, time with our kids, time with our neighbors….and just who are those neighbors who moved in down the street?  You know what I mean!

So anyway, here I am, typing away again.  Don’t get me wrong, I’ve typed, but not with the intention of posting, but just journaling my thoughts and lessons.  Life has had some crazy twists and turns for me and my family and the good Lord has been teaching me many lessons.  For those who’ve been following me for some time, you’ll know those lessons are why I named this blog A Mom’s Many Lessons years ago.  Life is packed full of lessons, each one seeking to bring us to the feet of our Father.  Each one attempting to draw us into a unique and amazingly peaceful existence with Him as our Master, Teacher, and Lord.  Each one pointing out our great need for a great Saviour.

So why didn’t I share with you along the way, right in the middle of those lessons?  I thought about that a lot this year and realized it’s pretty much summed up in the biblical admonition to not gossip – to not share with others until you know what the Lord might be up to – until you go to God first.  The verses below reveal where I got the strength needed to hold off writing and to seek God’s best during a difficult year.  They also remind us to seek God first and to not teach unless we are willing students ourselves!

Scripture Alert!  I’m giving lots of scripture references in this post.  Don’t ignore them!  Soak them up and you’ll know why I included them.  They will be health to your bones and nourishment to your soul.  And who knows, you never know when you might need the yourselves – isn’t that the beauty of Scripture anyway!
  • If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame. Proverbs 18:13
  • I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2
  • A time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak. Eccl. 3:7
  • Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. Col. 4:6
  • Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin. Prov. 13:3
  • Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble. Prov. 21:23
  • Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! …. James 3:1-12
  • Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips! Psalm 141:3
  • The mouth of the righteous utters wisdom, and his tongue speaks justice. Psalm 37:30

Who Are You Listening To Anyway?

When we share things before we’ve really dealt with them biblically, the lessons can be usurped and corrupted by another master, not one we should listen to.  Those lessons, our story, might be left unfinished due to using human reasoning rather than letting God’s wisdom and counsel do its perfect work.

As I’ve sat at the Father’s feet this last year (not perfectly, mind you – often I sought human methods – I’m not perfect and don’t want you to imagine for one minute that I am!) I could see my great need for time, counsel, listening to His still small voice, and letting those lessons sink in.  I’ve had so much to learn and I’m feeling more and more ready to share the lessons.  To help others who just might benefit from my hard-won lessons.  And they aren’t over yet!  Oh, no.

Reality check – our lessons continue until the day we die.  Each experience teaches us how vain, prideful, and just plain human we really are!  And they teach us how much we truly need God.  As you read the Old Testament, you will see a recurring theme.  God repeats dozens of time this phrase, “so they will know that I am God.”  That’s it!  It’s really quite simple.  It’s all about and all for God!

Simply trust.

Simply obey.

Simply rest.

It’s all about God and not us!  And there, my friend, you will find freedom.

Blessing as you walk the paths God has for you and learn to rest in Him.

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  • And I, when I came to you, brothers, did not come proclaiming to you the testimony of God with lofty speech or wisdom. For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. And I was with you in weakness and in fear and much trembling, and my speech and my message were not in plausible words of wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power, that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men but in the power of God. … 1 Cor. 2:1-16
  • James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, To the twelve tribes in the Dispersion: Greetings. Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. … James 1:1-17
  • Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. Psalm 51:6
  • Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers.1 Tim. 4:16
  • Whoever heeds instruction is on the path to life, but he who rejects reproof leads others astray. Prov. 10:17
  • This is how one should regard us, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God. Moreover, it is required of stewards that they be found trustworthy. But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged by you or by any human court. In fact, I do not even judge myself. For I am not aware of anything against myself, but I am not thereby acquitted. It is the Lord who judges me. Therefore do not pronounce judgment before the time, before the Lord comes, who will bring to light the things now hidden in darkness and will disclose the purposes of the heart. Then each one will receive his commendation from God. … 1 Cor. 4:1-21
  • For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. Hebrews 4:12
  • He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say to the Lord, “My refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.” For he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his pinions, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness is a shield and buckler. You will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day, … Psalm 91: 1-16
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Living Above the Noise – New Look, New Focus

By livingabovethenoise

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I took a break from blogging this past six months.  I needed to regroup and discover my focus.  When I started blogging four years ago, I was still full swing into parenting and just getting my feet wet with grandparenting.  This got me thinking.  My old blog name and focus, A Mom’s Many Lessons, was feeling a bit boxed in.  My life wasn’t just about the lessons learned from being a mom, but from all the avenues my life has taken.

I quickly discovered that planning a new blog layout is not for the faint of heart!  I’ve put a lot of thought into my purpose for blogging and even into the details for my header design.  I wanted my new design to reflect where God has me in life.  I still have plenty of “lessons” to share about, but my heart is soaring like this bird in the header.  I feel like weight has lifted off my heart and God has allowed me to see what life looks like without the noise and chatter of so many things around me.

So here I am, starting a new blog, with a new focus.

My new name was in the tagline of my old blog – “A Mom’s Many Lessons…in living above the noise and for the glory of God.”  My focus for life is to seek to live above all the noise around us, that which vies for our attention and distracts us from our main goal, the one goal of glorifying God in and through all of life.  This made it easy to choose my new name!

What’s this noise I speak of?  Oh, there are too many to put into words, but here are a few:  

  • Expectations – of myself and others, often unrealistic. 
  • Perfectionism – seeking the “best” and what I think will make God and others happy.
  • Roles – being a “good” wife, a “good” mom, a “better” friend, etc., but by whose standards?
  • Church – trying to be and do what other Christians expect; pressure that comes from not believing in all that goes on in modern churches…
  • The World – balancing between being in the world but not of it.

My goal in life is be like David and Solomon, to have a heart of understanding and discernment, and to use my life to serve and follow God.  I blog to encourage you to do the same.  To live above the chatter beckoning us to veer from our main focus, to sidetrack us from following God’s best for us and our family.  So please join me as I share ideas and lessons in my quest to stay focused.

If you  follow me via email, my new blog will transfer over to your email.  If you haven’t subscribed, please do, so you won’t miss a post!  You can also follow me on Facebook and Pinterest.

Blessings as we share in this journey called life!

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Solomon’s Prayer – “You have shown great lovingkindness to Your servant David, my father, according as he walked before You in truth and righteousness and uprightness of heart toward You…so give Your servant an understanding heart…to discern between good and evil.”  1 Kings 3:6-9

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